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Jordan Gonsalves

Jun 16, 2026

Getting Close

Getting Close

Gay Shame Researcher - on the Male Gaze, Sex with Your Friends, and how Compulsive Dating is Actually a Shame Response

Jun 16 · 54m

Aidan Wharton
Aidan WhartonHOST
23:37
I love it.
Jordan Gonsalves
Jordan GonsalvesGUEST
23:37
Yeah, you are actually the problem.
Jordan Gonsalves
Jordan GonsalvesGUEST
23:41
Yeah.
Jordan Gonsalves
Jordan GonsalvesGUEST
23:42
Okay, say more.
Jordan Gonsalves
Jordan GonsalvesGUEST
23:43
You know, I think we live in a culture of blame.
Jordan Gonsalves
Jordan GonsalvesGUEST
23:47
Okay.
Jordan Gonsalves
Jordan GonsalvesGUEST
23:48
And it's so easy to blame the people that we're dating.

15 MINS LATER

Aidan Wharton
Aidan WhartonHOST
38:49
the girls are out to

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