But what I've also seen, Jonathan, is that It's really hard to imagine until you're walking the hot coals.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And you raised a point earlier too, and I can't put my finger on where exactly you triggered that in my mind, but it's like, I remember the small town my parents were from was called Cold Spring, New York.

It's across from West Point up Hudson.

So you know where that is.

And there was a VFW there, and the guys would all go to the VFW and talk and have a beer.

So would you talk a little bit about that?

Yeah, it makes sense.

Okay, so what that means is you would have unconscious thoughts and beliefs that are different in Japan than in Nigeria.

So what I'm getting at here is that we all come with a very different set of thoughts and beliefs and unconscious beliefs and unconscious biases and unconscious expectations.

And what happens is...

If we can get a chance, if we have a good teacher, a good school teacher, a good mentor, a good friend, a good parent who knows this, because they have to know it first before they can share it with you, right? Remember, you can't share what you don't know.

I can't teach theoretical physics because I don't know theoretical physics.

I can't teach Japanese because I don't know Japanese.

So what does that mean in practical terms? And how can someone begin taking ownership of their thoughts, choices, and directions?