And so I'm just curious from your perspective, like, why you think that is, and if you feel that way.

Oh, yeah.

We, we are definitely in the busiest season.

I mean, not only have the older two really obviously grown up quite a bit, and they are incredibly busy with their activities and what they're trying to work through.

With every year, the younger two get busier and more active as well, so it's just, um, everything's up on 10, and I feel that.

And, uh, I think I said to you on a walk recently that while it feels harder and more complicated than it's ever felt, I feel as aligned and as strong with you as I've, I've ever felt.

And so we're just really fortunate that we're entering this phase where we're really strong and, and I know we work really hard at it, and that's certainly something we can talk about.

What do you think as we're in this season? What's something that I can do to support you better or show up better in our marriage as a partner? What do you need right now in this season with the kids being older?