... failure rate, right? It's crazy, but I, I would love for you to just help me and the audience really understand, like, what do you guys do that really cultivates this amazing marriage that you guys have had?

Well, so we have been through all those phases.

We have...

I- it's not...

And, and what you say about the choice, I've done so, I've done a lot of videos on this online, and, um, I agree with that so much.

And when I say don't stay together for the kids, it, you know, I don't know everybody's situation.

I understand there are just things you can't come back from.

Yeah.

Mm-hmm.

I was just like ... pounded it.

Yeah.

I'm like 125 pounds in ninth grade.

Yeah.

Five minutes, like, the whole bottle's gone- Wow ... with me and a couple other friends.

I completely black out.

Yeah.