Okay, okay.

That was a big one.

And then I was big into the Charlotte sports scene, so I was wearing the flat bill caps and the Panthers jerseys, the Hornets jersey as- at 35 years old, and she's like, "What is this?" So probably about five versions, but this one that she got at 49 and a half and at 50 is like nothing else.

I mean, this one I've completely changed, dropped the alcohol, the, the, the corporate career.

Everything is different, so she's really...

I'm pushing the boundaries of, uh, what's acceptable.

But again, using my own language, I feel like I was showing up at 60 or 70 for her for a d- over a decade, and now it's one of the great honors of my life to show up as 100 for her, the man she married.

Did you, did you choose this transformation, or were you kind of forced into the situation?