Mm.

And so, like, when you've got, like, when your plan for your, when your, when your plan for your few days off after your wedding is just sitting next to somebody and not talking to any of your family, you just, you're gonna just, like, really spend time, like, being with that real person, not that facade they put on when they're talking to the waiter in their talking voice, right? Not that facade of, like, "We're gonna do these things." It's just like you're just there with them.

And, like, you don't need to be anybody other than yourself.

You don't need to think about it.

You're just there, present.

And, like, I think that's what mundane moments gives us.

It gives us, like, it gives us reality, which is, like, 10% of your life is gonna be cool and exciting, no matter who you are.

Yeah

You're gonna just, like-

... really spend time, like, being with that real person, not that facade they put on when they're talking to the waiter in their talking voice, right? Not that facade of, like, we're gonna do these things.

It's just like, you're just there with them.

And like, you don't need to be anybody other than yourself.

You don't need to think about it.

You're just there, present.

And like, I think that's what mundane moments gives us.

Yeah