there's a there's a huge um push now for making peace between families and people that have challenges there's uh you know shalom for charlotte yes heard of that before tremendous tremendous a huge huge thing a huge topic when i think of forgiveness i'm thinking i should forgive the guy for for a personality trait that he or she has that didn't change, which means I'm forgiving them for stealing from me, let's say, but they can steal from me again.

How do you address that? How do you? So the way I look at it, and I actually had, I spoke about this.

It's called, I'll rather be smart than being right.

You have to live by this because in family dynamics, There's sometimes problems, friction, and you're right.

If you go to the , you're right.

If you go to court, you'll be right.

If 10 people sit down and you tell them your story, everybody's gonna say you're right, but you can't deposit it in the bank.

Every day?