You know, and I really believe that, you know, if you hung out with five people who were awesome and up to good stuff, and didn't have those disempowering stories running all the time, you quickly become like them and then vice versa if you hang out with the others but because social circle and the idea of building a social circle has become more and more prevalent in dating i feel like there's a lot of guys now who aren't willing to approach which is like the fundamental skill needed to be good with women it's like doesn't matter if you met her at your own birthday party if you don't know her right unless she thinks you're greatest thing ever and she's just like fanboying to meet you like you still have to talk to her you still have to approach her or at least have that initial interaction where she thinks you're as great as you you seemed before and uh more and more i've encountered this resistance to any sort of cold approach and it's tough because guys have been like well you're the social circle coach and blah blah i'm like yeah but it doesn't mean you could get to skip those other steps yeah so curious uh what your thoughts on that are

Yeah, I got a lot of thoughts on that as well, too.

I'm sure we agree with that.

I think we talked about a little bit the other day as well, too.

You know, the simplest way I could kind of put it is going out and cold approaching and learning like how to cold approach, how to escalate, how to eventually close things or whatever.

That's that's your game, right? That's that's your game.

That's how you attract women.

So I'm curious if you kind of find the same thing.