You know, how did you manage that? Or how do you continue to manage it?

I usually say to them, you know, I really need to ask the other person first.

Right.

And and in that case, sometimes I do.

And I give the other person the heads up.

Listen, this may not be the right fit.

Would you give them 15, 20 minutes and see? Because I don't want to judge necessarily or give them the heads up.

Um, and everything, how do, how did you stop waiting for permission and just dive right in with, and so with so much brave and bravado, like when did you stop asking for permission?