And so it's, oh, can I do that?

I don't think necessarily you have to keep your mouth shut.

I think, again, because your personality, you're fantastic.

And so when you go into your son's wedding, if you keep your mouth shut, I think everybody's going to be sad because you do bring a lot of happiness to the day.

Those examples that I gave you are the very blunt, obvious ones.

But then sometimes there's smaller ones that parents get so caught up in what they envision their child's wedding that they completely lose sight of what their child actually wants.

Sometimes it's a guest list, the dress.

So as a mom of a son or sons, what kind of relationship do you hope to have with your future daughter-in-law?