However, you're still responsible for your choices.

Absolutely.

Yeah.

I mean, a couple of things to look at, you know, where it says when Jesus was reviled, he didn't revile in return.

So.

We don't respond to her disrespect with more disrespect, but it doesn't mean that we don't call out that disrespect either.

Right.

For the dad who walked in and stuck where you were or where I was, help him start to build more of a, what are we for? What are some things that we're for, Jerome, as we're raising these young men and women?

I just can't keep doing that.

Yeah.

Great question, Dr. Sandra.

I would say it's actually the last two, and that is silence and space.

And so in the book, when I present silence as a respect language, a lot of the women, they hop right there.

You trying to tell us to shut up? I said, no, absolutely not.

I'm a man of God.

Maybe even address why do you think that is? What is it about faith that for some reason creates this feeling that sex is bad or not needed in a marriage?