That sibling rivalry is a real thing, and... our boys and girls have all had success in the show ring but how do you make sure that all your kids feel included um

fortunately for this trip and you guys may have seen on social media jerry and i have been able to spend a lot of time together and it's been great because we're always on the go and going 100 miles an hour when we're with kids and we're at shows or at each other's farms and we don't have time to sit and visit about these things.

And this is one thing that we really have touched on.

And we just by nature, our kids are competitive and they get that from from our husbands and they are competitive with each other.

And it has been a struggle in my family.

I would I would say that we do not have it mastered yet, but one thing that has helped is splitting up.

Everyone has very clear roles and jobs in our barn, so as far as the day-to-day responsibilities and then in the show ring when we separated breeds for the most part.

Absolutely.