it's like I knew so much more

than I gave myself credit for and then you know you grow up and then you do the school and the college and like the blackout phases of your life But with all of that I struggled a lot with anxiety I struggled with an eating disorder all through college and Because that was like that first experience of my own.

I grew up in a smaller town.

I went to a big college.

And that sense of control was lost, right? I grew up in a pretty strict household.

So I was like left, you know, for the wolves.

So I struggled with an eating disorder.

I guess, do you have any cool stories? like a favorite case or a recent project not to call people projects but like you and them working on a project together of like healing something or moving past something um that you want to share with us that would be like a cool inspirational story for people

Tell us more.

Yes.

So we were just talking about the intelligence system we know is like the intellect, the IQ.

And we know this one well.

And it's really meant to be the left brain is like a puppy.

It's like we're training the puppy.

It's meant to serve us.

So what changes when we stop approaching ourselves as a problem that needs fixing?

Yes, but there are a lot of Ronyas out there.

Exactly.

So that case where someone is imposing the open relationship on you, I call that consensual cheating.

I don't call that an open relationship.

And I've had to tell people this.

I'm like, hey, the thing you're in, by the way, it's supposed to be like a mutually understood, agreed upon relationship style.

Like people will, I've talked to people where they're like, oh, I identify as polyamorous.

Is there really some excitement, like extra excitement from being with more than one partner?