and every time people

think I'm talking about the bedroom and I am more than happy to talk about that I'm going to keep away from talking about that in detail because I know that you have a very broad audience but there's nothing that shocks me and there's nothing that I can't talk about I'm really here for it And but obviously you need consent if you're going to, you know, be doing very intimate personal things with somebody.

That's very obvious.

But the other the other bit of consent that people run into on a daily day to day basis is do you consent to cookies on this website or do you consent to be on my mailing list? And it's a tick box once and done.

And I think that the way we talk about sexual consent and that sort of consent is very transactional.

It's yes means yes, no means no, which is an interesting starting point.

But it's really not helpful when you think about.

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