Mm-hmm.

And I feel that, um, differently I, I would say I would build a, um, I would make sure that the community is, is, is, is as strong as the foundation because it takes a community like to keep, you know, to keep you accountable and, and have people that you can process with and have like-minded people that you can have conversations with about things that may, you know, just might not be a, you know, a, a, a, um, end all be all issue, but it's things you might not understand.

Uh-huh.

It could be in an account.

It could be in, in a escrow picking up, you know, uh, um, you know, it could be making money while, you know...

It could be picking up interest or whatever.

It could be doing whatever, but we understand this is what this is.

'Cause I'm just saying that when you go through, you know, and I'm not speaking just on my situation.

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Yep.

You know what I mean? You gotta be e- either you gonna be solid or you ain't.

And, and that's the thing.