so has your partner has your partner taught you anything in the dynamic

she's taught me so much um and i can turn around and say she's taught me about aftercare um it's different from how you feel the aftercare should go versus building a space for advocate for that person and I can say that it changes and it's never the same so building a program for four people individually helps a lot she has taught me that man communication as well even though I feel like I come with communication sometimes when she's in the rope she talks to me she tells me hey this rope is kind of like doing this I need you to make sure that you adjusted a little bit or if she's up in the air and she's ready to come down she'll be like hey in two minutes you need to start bringing me down because I'm almost at my end.

And I'm like, okay.

So it's taught me a lot more communication with her.

It's taught me a lot more patience.

She's taught me a lot more understanding when it comes to rope.

And we've been doing this for a long time.

evolves?