How has that definition changed over time?

I mean, definitely think that success is multifaceted.

My definition of success now is more about how I'm viewed as like a husband, a father, a son, You know, how am I, you know, the respect that I get from other people and not that my career, I'm not, I'm doing successful in building my career, but I feel like it's more of a balanced approach of being successful, not only in my career, but also being successful in my personal life.

just getting involved in my community and giving back I feel is really what drives the success because that's what I mean that's what makes our community so special it still has that small town because everybody is still willing to pitch in so yeah that's it's funny how over life it kind of changes you know and really we're going on an axe retreat was one of those things that like really kicked me in the gut.

You know, my daughter had just been born and, you know, before kids, like, I mean, you're selfish really.

If we all, if we all think about it, I mean, even when you get married, um, because there's nobody, I mean, yes, your wife needs you at home.

You got it.

Or, Hey, can you meet at six o'clock on Friday? No, I can't.