And Jane, that moves us on to your own experience, which I understand must be terribly difficult to share such a traumatic experience.

So 15 years ago, our first daughter, Sophia, died the same day that she was born.

So my husband and I were very excited about starting a family.

We were lucky enough to get pregnant the first time we tried.

So it was very much longed for, excited for a baby.

And the pregnancy, apart from some morning sickness, was going fine until the 22 weeks we had the detailed scan.

And we got informed that she had what's called a sacrococcygeal teratoma, which is basically a tumor on the base of her spine.

I'd be curious to hear, like, What was helpful for you? What could your friends do at the time that was supportive?