when their wife or woman or partner doesn't ma- doesn't, um, orgasm easily, doesn't know what they want because they ha- also have not been in a, in a safe environment to explore because, again, the man might take it personally and then quit and, uh, and leave and think, "This is too much and I don't wanna feel badly about myself." What does that person do?

Yeah.

Or even what often happens is people dissociate and just actually leave their bodies during the sex, almost like just opting out so that the, they hope that the, the partner will just finish and, and that's really, really sad and happens all the time for so many people.

Yeah.

You know, it's...

These are really tough conversations.

What we have to do, and I, is to talk to our partner and tell them that this really matters to us.

Besides hypnosis, what others, what other ways would you recommend people get into that kind of playful, open, loving state before or during having this conversation about this really hard thing to make it more palatable, to make it more fun, to make it more exciting, to make it more hopeful?

when their wife or woman or partner doesn't ma- doesn't, um, orgasm easily, doesn't know what they want because they ha- also have not been in a, in a safe environment to explore because, again, the man might take it personally and then quit and, uh, and leave and think, "This is too much, and I don't wanna feel badly about myself." What does that person do?

Yeah.

Or even what often happens is people dissociate and just actually leave their bodies during the sex, almost like just opting out so that the...

They hope that the, the partner will just finish and, and that's really, really sad and happens all the time for so many people.

Yeah.

You know, it's...

These are really tough conversations.

Besides hypnosis, what others, what other ways would you recommend people get into that kind of playful, open, loving state before or during having this conversation about this really hard thing to make it more palatable, to make it more fun, to make it more exciting, to make it more hopeful?

when their wife or woman or partner doesn't ma- doesn't, um, orgasm easily, doesn't know what they want because they ha- also have not been in a, in a safe environment to explore because, again, the man might take it personally and then quit and, uh, and leave and think, "This is too much, and I don't wanna feel badly about myself." What does that person do?

Yeah.

Or even what often happens is people dissociate and just actually leave their bodies during the sex, almost like just opting out so that the, they hope that the, the partner will just finish.

And, and that's really, really sad and happens all the time for so many people.

Yeah, you know, it's...

These are really tough conversations.

What we have to do, and I, is to talk to our partner and tell them that this really matters to us.

Besides hypnosis, what others, what other ways would you recommend people get into that kind of playful, open, loving state before or during having this conversation about this really hard thing to make it more palatable, to make it more fun, to make it more exciting, to make it more hopeful?

Yeah.

So let's say you have a relationship that's not going well in the bedroom, or there's been cheating, or something's happening where one partner is giving the other partner a feeling that they're not good enough, or somehow it's not, it's not satisfactory.

Um, that is not the time to add a non-monogamy into your relationship, in my opinion.

You need to work on your own relationship.

It, it's not a good, like, jump start, in my opinion, for your relationship.

Uh, you really need to have the grounding in communication and both people, again, feeling comfortable.

But so let's say both people are curious and they're interested.

Yeah

Yeah.

Yeah.

Right.

So anyway, um, oftentimes what'll happen is, um, the husband will contact me, or maybe they come to a- a like a consultation conversation together.

She oftentimes looks like she feels embarrassed or like she's been put down.

People often cry.

They feel like they're, um, not worthy.

Mm-hmm.