Jump in whoever wants to.

He unmuted us.

So I guess we'll go first.

Um, We've been married 20 years and the first, I think two years of our marriage, we moved four times and, and some of that was like different houses, but, um, he is a huge dreamer and I'm a boots on the ground, make it happen kind of person.

And so we work really well together, but I'm also a security person.

And so I've had to work really hard at, um, allowing like God to be sufficient for this not me be self-sufficient and make stuff happen um and that's an ongoing journey I'd love to say I have it all figured out but I don't um like sometimes it's been easier than others sometimes it's been really hard sometimes it's amazing but it's always really beautiful and really worth it um i don't know i it's just a constant i'm thankful that we're surrounded by good community um i'm thankful we don't have a status quo marriage where we just like you know check it off the list and talk about jesus at christmas and easter because that's so crappy like i mean i just can't imagine like the depth that our our family has because we do things a little bit different and

yeah

It's not a place of like pride.