Um, we're gonna refer to him as Mr. J. Um, so Mr. J, why don't you tell us a little bit about your background? Let listeners know a little bit about who you are, uh, and just, you know, whatever you feel comfortable with sharing, obviously.

All right.

Glad to, glad to be on.

Um, not really a extensive background.

Um, most of my background is in law enforcement.

That's, that's where I started.

Um, and then from there, I kind of ventured off into some specialty construction stuff as a family business opportunity with, with my dad, and that, that's where one of the, one of the stories that I think we're gonna talk about came into play.

I, how did you come into the home?

Nice.

I also got him interested in rubber because, you know, we had these talks online before, and he was really excited to, um, know about the dynamics.

He was really excited to know about, uh, rubber and everything.

And then we had this date, and one thing led to another, and I started owning him very shortly after because the dynamic that we have, the chemistry that we have is, is just, uh, just amazing.

So the dynamic that I have with him is, is not about control in the obvious sense.

So it's not just, you know, giving orders or playing a dominant.

It's about giving structure to him also in his normal life, in his daily life, uh, some sense of consistency and, and, and trust, you know? For me, being a dom, I don't just take the control, I just hold control.

Do you wanna explain what TPE is? 'Cause I'm not 100%, uh, I don't 100% know about it.