Iris Van Der Meule
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Oct 18, 2026
The TIFF Sessions: Inside Lesbian Simulator | Iris van der Meule
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6:13And was that aesthetic choice or creative choice between personal agency and social agency something you were consciously designing
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6:24Iris van der MeuleGUEST
Yeah, I feel like that is a bit how it, to me, feels in the, well, how we do it in the real world as well.
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6:37Iris van der MeuleGUEST
And a lesbian simulator, I do force you to be a lesbian, but you can customize, of course.
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6:43Iris van der MeuleGUEST
But the thing that happens mostly when after you come out, These are things that are gonna happen to you and that's why I kind of yeah, you you don't have agency on how the world is gonna respond to you to your sexuality so in lesbian simulator you have to Yeah, just live it through and I feel like that's how it feels a bit in the real world as well like I'm here as a queer person and I have to navigate this world I can't control how people will like talk or interact with me some of them are really nice some of them are really horrible so I tried to recreate that in Lesbian Simulator but I really liked you for people that are for example not lesbians the fact that you can create your own avatar and do the sort of mini games in the beginning where you do have that agency I also wanted the player to feel a connection with their avatars as far as you can have that in 40 minutes.
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7:39Iris van der MeuleGUEST
So that's why, yeah, some parts you can choose a bit your own path and in some parts there's something just happening to you, yeah.
She Turned Her Life into a Game: Iris Van Der Meule is Playing to Win
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Samantha FremontHOST
When making this game, what was it like, I guess, imagining these life experiences into a game format and a playable one where people can interact?
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6:36Iris Van Der MeuleGUEST
It's a linear experience with interactions, but you will always go to the same next scene.
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6:42Iris Van Der MeuleGUEST
So there's a little bit of influence, I'd say, but not where you will end up in the story.
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6:48Iris Van Der MeuleGUEST
But I started mostly by looking at my own life and the life of some of my queer friends and same patterns that we had.
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6:58Iris Van Der MeuleGUEST
So I started sort of making a list of levels with themes that I would like to talk about.
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7:04Iris Van Der MeuleGUEST
So that is, for example, the phase where we explore ourselves on the internet before we come out and also going to a queer rave but also to coming out and then after coming out having scenarios where you go in a public space and and there's people that suddenly have a negative opinion about you So I started collecting these themes and building a little bit of a narrative around them.
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