So there's just to deal with all of that, you know, Yeah, like a lot.

Yeah, I think that all of them have great lessons.

And I learned from infertility to surrender.

And we had the most beautiful surrogate mother that helped us bring our two boys into life.

And so it was just a beautiful story and an exceptional woman that's still part of our lives.

surrendering to the universe and knowing it doesn't always go the way you had dreamed.

And that was my first awakening to that.

Yeah, because otherwise you will