Have you learned anything about men since doing it, seriously?

seriously?I don't know that I've, like, learned anything new.

I think it's more that, I guess the thing that surprises me the most is how willing men are to say the stuff they would say in private-

I'm curious about that.

I mean, women, we are always making excuses for men.

We are always being like, you know, "Oh, it's okay," and, and looking past things, and that's something I notice just among my friends-

Not a good one

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so if you're really, like, you know, desperate to find somebody, it's just not going to happen.

I think just being very, like, happy within yourself and secure within yourself.

If you're just, like, having a great time with your girlfriends and you're not, like, desperately seeking men, men will come to you.

They will flock to you.

It's an energetic of, like, you know, attracting rather than, like, going out and seeking, 'cause something about that pushes away the men energetically.

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I'm very good at following directions.

[laughs] I try to go to a lot of man events.

So I go to motorcycle rallies, I go to, um, s- you know, conventions, I go to, like, X Games, I go to F1, I go to, like, stuff where there are gonna be a lot of dudes.

Monster truck rallies, like, just...

But that mostly is kids actually, so don't, don't find men at monster truck rallies.

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Holly, give us some insight and tell us some tips on some of the questions that we should be asking men on dates.

Well, I mean, if you wanna get straight to the heart of things, if you ask a man, "Why are you like this?" Or like, "Why are men like this?" And if they get offended, that's a really good sign that he's a weirdo.

Like, it shouldn't be offensive.

Pe- it's that defensive thing again.

Like, why are you getting defensive over this like benign, silly question? I think being really, like, straightforward and blunt has, like, really served me really well because, [laughs] because you really-

Ah, yeah.

So if you're really like, you know, desperate to find somebody, it's just not going to happen.

I think just being very like happy within yourself and secure within yourself.

Holly, give us some insight and tell us some tips on some of the questions that we should be asking men on dates.

Well, I mean, if you wanna get straight to the heart of things, if you ask a man, "Why are you like this?" Or like, "Why are men like this?" And if they get offended, that's a really good sign that he's a weirdo.

Like, it shouldn't be offensive.

Pe- it's that defensive thing again.

Like, why are you getting defensive over this like benign, silly question? I think being really, like, straightforward and blunt has, like, really served me really well because, [laughs] because you really-

Ah, yeah.

So if you're really like, you know, desperate to find somebody, it's just not going to happen.

I think just being very like happy within yourself and secure within yourself.

Holly, give us some insight into And tell us some tips on some of the questions that we should be asking men on dates.

Well, I mean, if you want to get straight to the heart of things, if you ask a man, why are you like this? Or like, why are men like this? And if they get offended, that's a really good sign that he's a weirdo.

Like, it shouldn't be offensive.

It's that defensive thing again.

Like, why are you getting defensive over this like benign, silly question? I think being really like straightforward and blunt has like really served me really well because, because you really just get to like, I ask things that you're not supposed to ask because it just is it, it either, either people find you amusing and they'll play along and they'll answer directly or they'll get offensive or they'll get offended.

And then you'll realize like, this is not, not good this person's trying to hide something i mean i ask men on the street like are you rich i'll just ask anything let me see

And I'm like, but I'm not 10 years younger.

And is that probably just to get past? Cause you know, people set their age limits.

Holly, give us some insight and tell us some tips on some of the questions that we should be asking men on dates.

Well, I mean, if you wanna get straight to the heart of things, if you ask a man, "Why are you like this?" Or like, "Why are men like this?" And if they get offended, that's a really good sign that he's a weirdo.

Like, w- it shouldn't be offensive.

He, it's that defensive thing again.

Like, why are you getting defensive over this, like, benign, silly question? I think being really, like, straightforward and blunt has, like, really served me really well because, [laughs] because you really-

Ah, number one

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so if you're really, like, you know, desperate to find somebody it's just not going to happen.

What do you think just gets under men's skin? Like, what is it?

So I'm, I'm sure you've heard the phrase, um, a man's greatest fear is being humiliated and a woman's greatest fear is being like, you know, murdered by a man, and I think this somehow like taps right directly into the vein of that, is, a, a lot of these men think I'm like intentionally trying to humiliate men or they're surprised by my line of questioning.

They, I'm coming up to them.

They think maybe, "Oh, this girl's gonna like flirt with me," and then I'm like [laughs] "Why are you like this?" [laughs] And like they think it's, they think I'm trying to embarrass them, and they just, something in them short-circuits.

It's not...

There's so many men that are so cool, and that are in on the joke, and that they think it's so funny, and they're fans of the show, but they're not the ones that go viral.

[laughs] So like I put those videos up too.

Are they afraid?

What do you think just gets under men's skin? Like, what is it?

So, I'm, I'm sure you've heard the phrase, um, a man's greatest fear is being humiliated and a woman's greatest fear is being, like, you know, murdered by a man, and I think this somehow, like, taps right directly into the vein of that, is, a, a lot of these men think I'm, like, intentionally trying to humiliate men or they're surprised by my line of questioning.

I'm coming up to them.

They think maybe, "Oh, this girl's gonna, like, flirt with me," and then I'm like, [laughs] "Why are you like this?" [laughs] And, like, they think it's- they think I'm trying to embarrass them, and they just, something in them short-circuits.

It's not...

There's so many men that are so cool, and that are in on the joke, and that they think it's so funny, and they're fans of the show, but they're not the ones that go viral.

[laughs] So, like, I put those videos up, too.

Are they afraid?

And I just feel like, what do you think just gets under men's skin? Like, what is it?

So I'm sure you've heard the phrase, a man's greatest fear is being humiliated and a woman's greatest fear is being like, you know, murdered by a man.

And I think this somehow like taps right directly into the vein of that is a lot of these men think I'm like intentionally trying to humiliate men or they're surprised by my line of questioning that I'm coming up to them.

They think maybe, oh, this girl's going to like flirt with me.

And then I'm like, why are you like this? Like they think it's, they think I'm trying to embarrass them and they just something in them short circuits.

It's not, there's so many men that are so cool and that are in on the joke and that they think it's so funny that And they're fans of the show, but they're not the ones that go viral.

So, like, I put those videos up, too.

I'm just wondering, are they angry? Are they just mad about being men? Are they lonely? Are they

And I just feel like, what do you think just gets under men's skin? Like, what is it?

So I'm sure you've heard the phrase, a man's greatest fear is being humiliated and a woman's greatest fear is being like, you know, murdered by a man.

And I think this somehow like taps right directly into the vein of that is a lot of these men think I'm like intentionally trying to humiliate men or they're surprised by my line of questioning that I'm coming up to them.

They think maybe, Oh, this girl's going to like flirt with me.

And then I'm like, why are you like this? Like they think it's, they think I'm trying to embarrass them and they just something in them short circuits.

It's not, there's so many men that are so cool and that are in on the joke and that they think it's so funny that And they're fans of the show, but they're not the ones that go viral.

So, like, I put those videos up, too.

I'm just wondering, are they angry? Are they just mad about being men? Are they lonely? Are they afraid? I think

What do you think just gets under men's skin? Like what is it?

So I'm, I'm sure you've heard the phrase, um, a man's greatest fear is being humiliated and a woman's greatest fear is being like, you know, murdered by a man, and I think this somehow like taps right directly into the vein of that, is a, a lot of these men think I'm like intentionally trying to humiliate men or they're surprised by my line of questioning.

I'm coming up to them.

They think maybe, "Oh, this girl's gonna like flirt with me," and then I'm like, [laughs] "Why are you like this?" [laughs] And like they think it's, they think I'm trying to embarrass them and they just, something in them short-circuits.

It's not ...

There's so many men that are so cool and that are in on the joke and that they think it's so funny and they're fans of the show, but they're not the ones that go viral.

[laughs] So like I put those videos up too.

Are they afraid?

And I just feel like, what do you think just gets under men's skin? Like, what is it?

So I'm sure you've heard the phrase, a man's greatest fear is being humiliated and a woman's greatest fear is being like, you know, murdered by a man.

And I think this somehow like taps right directly into the vein of that is a lot of these men think I'm like intentionally trying to humiliate men or they're surprised by my line of questioning that I'm coming up to them.

They think maybe, oh, this girl is going to like flirt with me.

And then I'm like, why are you like this? Like they think it's they think I'm trying to embarrass them and they just something in them short circuits.

It's not.

There's so many men that are so cool and that are in on the joke and that they think it's so funny that And they're fans of the show, but they're not the ones that go viral.

I'm just wondering, are they angry? Are they just mad about being men? Are they lonely? Are they afraid? I think

Mm.

Yeah.

I had a similar situation.

Uh, my parents were together in a very, like, intense and passionate way, um, when I was growing up, and there was, like, you know, breaking up and getting back together and, like, separating, getting back together, and then, like, a very messy divorce.

Young parents, like, lots of addiction in my family.

And I just-

Mm

... of that stuff with.