How did you guys start with that? How did you create that?

Well, I want to say that it was totally Harville's thought that a couple, when they're dating, they date, they date, they date.

That's the one I want to marry.

That unconsciously, they think that other person is going to treat them differently than how their parents treated them.

And so I want to give Harville all the credit for that idea.

So romantic attraction.

Oh, and you go to the minister.

point.

How did you guys start with that? How did you create that?

Well, I want to say that it was totally Harville's thought that a couple, when they're dating, they date, they date, they date.

That's the one I want to marry.

That unconsciously, they think that other person is going to treat them differently than how their parents treated them.

And so I want to give Harville all the credit for that idea.

So romantic attraction.

Oh, and you go to the minister.

point.

How did you guys start with that? How did you create that?

Well, I want to say that it was totally Harville's thought that a couple, when they're dating, they date, they date, they date.

That's the one I want to marry.

That unconsciously, they think that other person is going to treat them differently than how their parents treated them.

And so I want to give Harville all the credit for that idea.

So romantic attraction.

Oh, and you go to the minister.

point.

How did you guys start with that? How did you create that?

Well, I want to say that it was totally Harville's thought that a couple, when they're dating, they date, they date, they date.

That's the one I want to marry.

That unconsciously, they think that other person is going to treat them differently than how their parents treated them.

And so I want to give Harville all the credit for that idea.

So romantic attraction.

Oh, and you go to the minister.

point.

Yeah.

But he was assigned, um, recently to a place where we have a rental apartment, and we were there.

And, um, and when he was assigned to, back to New York, we have a rental in New York.

We're, we're in Dallas now.

And he said: "Boy, I love being back in New York City, but the apartment buildings are expensive, and, um, I'm looking for a place to live." I said: "Harville, we have a spare bedroom." So this relative came to live with us, and he taught us TM.

And we have never done transcendental med- meditation before.

And when, uh, the way you talk about Courtney, um, somatic therapist and, and mystic and-

This is the fourth one.

But

because he said, Helen, I would love to have a book written about what we lecture about.

I said, well, horrible, there's not a book publisher big enough in Dallas for this book to get published.

Yeah.

Marry me.

Let's move to New York.

I'll find an agent to get the best book publisher possible.

love to hear, please.