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Heather Thomas

Heather Thomas

American actress

Sep 23, 2026

6:43
Was it romantic?
6:46
I would say at the very beginning, yes.
6:48
Uh, you know, I was kind of taken aback.
6:51
You know, he had a lot of friends.
6:53
I keep a very close inner circle.
6:55
I don't have a ton of friends, but the friends I do have, I've had for decades, and he just knew everyone and he had a very outgoing personality and just w- was a talker and loved to read and just was...
7:11
It was very different than kind of how I, I was.
8:43
Heather felt a shift.
3:37
How much do you think that impacted your career here in Southern California?
3:43
Um, I think it did because I was in the pipeline.
3:48
UCLA actors were getting agents, and, and, uh, you used to have to, have to audition if you were a theater major.
3:57
And if you didn't get cast, you were part of the crew.
4:01
You know, you aud- you worked on every production, major production they did.
4:05
And I got in one called In the Boom Boom Room by Dave Rabe, and I was a dancer, so that got me an agent.
4:14
And then what I learned in film school, I applied to writing and acting, because I, I took a lot of writing classes.

17 MINS LATER

21:12
Do you?
speaker_3SOUNDBITE_SPEAKER
1:40
This sketch from the GBI serving as one of the only glimpses of who the woman could be.
1:45
I was like, "Whoa, wait a minute." Like, "That looks like Mindy.
1:51
That looks like Mindy." And I just froze.
1:58
I said, "I have reason to believe that this person is Mindy Kisotas.
2:05
Looks very like, much like her." I was like, "I want to be wrong." I have never b- wanted to be wrong like this in my whole entire life.

38 MINS LATER

speaker_1HOST
40:05
Is that hard for you, then, to think that you were married to this man who then killed his wife?
40:16
The thing that I struggle with, I think, even now, is the fact that survivor's guilt is very real.
40:25
Out of the two of us, I probably had, he probably had more reasons to perhaps maybe come after me.
Rissa MontanezPANELIST
36:25
I didn't wanna miss this chance, so I decided to go with her.
36:28
her.We stepped into the forest, and while looking for the right place to set up our tent, we noticed strange signs on the trees as we moved forward.
36:40
That's when we met a group of strangers just like us who had come for hiking.
36:45
We decided to team up with them.
36:48
With their help, we successfully set up the campfire before dark.
36:52
While resting, we even planned to watch the sunset from the bridge inside the forest.
36:58
We laughed, sharing stories.

9 MINS LATER

46:25
So what's going on? Everyone talking about me?
speaker_5SOUNDBITE_SPEAKER
2:25
This sketch from the GBI serving as one of the only glimpses of who the woman could be.
2:30
I was like, "Whoa, wait a minute." Like, "That looks like Mindy.
2:37
That looks like Mindy." And I just froze.
2:44
I said, "I have reason to believe that this person is Mindy Kassotis.
2:51
Looks very like, much like her." I was like, "I want to be wrong." I have never b- wanted to be wrong like this in my whole entire life.

40 MINS LATER

42:36
Is that hard for you then to think that you were married to this man who then killed his wife?
42:47
The thing that I struggle with, I think even now, is the fact that survivor's guilt is very real.
42:56
Out of the two of us, I probably had...

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