And

how do I listen to my own voice? So there's, you know, I think of almost what's coming to my mind is a Venn diagram of there's all this wisdom out here.

And then I hear my own voice.

Where's that overlap that's beginning to just resonate with what I value and And what I want this human being to be doing when they're 18 years old and likely no longer under my care and roof to the extent that they are now, what really resonates with me.

And I think here is where we get into a conundrum because there's not a right or wrong and there's not a black or white relationship.

And that's actually distorted thinking when we think it's right or wrong or black or white.

There is a way that's uniquely designed for you that, again, you need to trust.

going to kick back and listen to you.