you know for people who are in that situation where there's all this stuff that's happening you know like what where did you go to find the support that you needed and and ultimately what did you end up doing

i mean in terms of finding the support that i needed I honestly wasn't able to find it.

And that's kind of the second part of my story.

I think in terms of talking to my kids, I feel like, and I don't know why it happened.

It's not because I'm the best parent in the whole world.

But I do think that in the end, I had the right instincts that my three-year-old needed me to talk to her.

And so, you know, we...

And I'm curious, was it something that just came up and how did you, like, how did the idea come up and how did you ultimately pick the name?