They're looking for help.

No! No! No! If I want help, no! Dude, if I want help with my kids, I'm gonna go to a woman to help me, first of all.

And like, yeah, it would be nice to have some help, but like, no, they're looking to show their kids a healthy relationship that they didn't end up with themselves the first go around, right? So now I have to show you better because the relationship I'm putting on in front of you is the relationship that you're gonna end up with when you're a grown adult, yeah.

But now that you're not even the real dad, so they're even more ungrateful that you're there in the family.

No.

Have you ever seen those videos of where two people get married and the stepdad walks them down the aisle? Yeah.

Or like they, at their graduation announcement, they use the stepdad's last name and like things like that.

Kids are definitely grateful when they're young and in their teens, they probably won't be grateful, but as they're older, but me as a, as a, I grew up with two parents together that shouldn't have been together, but like I was ungrateful and then I grew up and I'm like, oh.