have.

Sometimes horrible things have happened.

But that judge has a docket to get through.

And then they also have a 1 o'clock call for their own purposes.

So what you try to tell people is, look, if you've come to this... litigation setting to right the wrongs of your relationship and expect the court to give you the time and the attention that your case requires, that's your first mistake.

You are not going to monopolize the court's time or get the time that your case really desires, which means you have to build your case in the background.

You have to do your healing and your family therapy and your litigation strategy.

Yeah.

What is this equality trap? Tell us about what you were talking about in the article.

Look, I've been practicing for 25 years and I've seen the evolution of this concept that I call the equality trap happen over time, which is basically...

And, you know, I'll start with how it comes out in court and then I'll talk a little bit about how kind of the research has gotten us there.

But in essence, look, people need to understand that judges have hundreds of cases on their dockets.

Hundreds.

Sometimes they have 150.

I've seen it go up as high as close to 300.

They don't care about the kids.