And so that is a really important part to what we, and you were talking about this a lot in our previous episode, is like, that's how our responses can actually shape the brain.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

And, and then there, you know, the threat, other threats for babies are being alone, right? I- being w- feeling lonely, not knowing where, not being able to smell or hear or sense a caregiver, um, that is also perceived as a threat to them, too, right? So sometimes they need presence, they need, you know, they need you there, um, to help.

And so, um, yes.

And so babies wake up.

If they, if they sense any of those, you know, they'll go through their kind of checklist of, like, am I okay? Am I feeling safe? Some, especially babies with easygoing temperaments, some might not experience a lot of stress.

... going forward?

And with our babies through the umbilical cord, our babies' cells come into us, and they might heal different parts of us that need healing.

We've found fetal cells in mothers' hearts, in their brains.

They come into our brains.

They come into sometimes our...

If we've had a belly birth and our C-section scars, our babies' cells can be there.

It's a really beautiful cellular exchange, so the babies that you've lost are still part of you, and that's really wonderful.

Hmm

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