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Ginny Brown

Ginny Brown

Virginia "Ginny" Brown, LCSW, is a New York psychotherapist and founder of SEEK Safely, the nonprofit she started after her daughter Kirby Brown died at James Arthur Ray's 2009 sweat lodge retreat.

Aug 31, 2026

Matt StroudNARRATOR
30:23
Soon, James Arthur Ray was on the other end.
30:27
So James Ray gets on the phone and says, how are you? And I say, I'm in shock.
30:33
And he says, I am too.
30:36
I can't imagine how this could have happened.
30:39
And then he said, you know, Kirby was just such a wonderful person.
30:44
And you need to know she was in a really good place.
30:50
And I just said, too bad it was with you in Sedona.
Matt StroudNARRATOR
31:32
She'd been inside the sweat lodge, too, and she described to Ginny in detail what had happened to Kirby.
speaker_1NARRATOR
1:24
As they walked in, she had to admit the atmosphere was exciting.
1:28
And we had to walk through a gauntlet, I will say, of cheerleaders who were jumping up and down and revving up the energy in the room.
1:38
And I remember saying to one woman, I said, man, you girls really had your coffee this morning.
1:44
And she said to me, oh, we don't drink coffee.
1:46
Like, that's poison.
1:47
And I was like, oh, OK, well, I do.
1:49
And I love it.
speaker_1NARRATOR
2:38
They nodded their heads like, yeah.
speaker_1NARRATOR
1:24
As they walked in, she had to admit, the atmosphere was exciting.
1:28
And we had to walk through a gauntlet, I will say, of cheerleaders, who were jumping up and down, and revving up the energy in the room.
1:38
And I remember saying to one woman, I said, "Man, you, you girls really had your coffee this morning." And she said to me, "Oh, we don't drink coffee.
1:46
Like, that's poison." And I was like, "Oh, okay.
1:49
Well, I do, and I love it." [laughs]
speaker_1NARRATOR
2:38
They nodded their heads like, "Yeah."
2:40
You know, that high-energy kind of environment is just kind of fun.
2:44
You, you wanna be part of it.
speaker_1NARRATOR
1:24
As they walked in, she had to admit the atmosphere was exciting.
1:28
And we had to walk through a gauntlet, I will say, of cheerleaders who were jumping up and down and revving up the energy in the room.
1:38
And I remember saying to one woman, I said, "Man, you, you girls really had your coffee this morning." And she said to me, "Oh, we don't drink coffee.
1:46
Like, that's poison." And I was like, "Oh, okay.
1:49
Well, I do, and I love it." [laughs]
speaker_1NARRATOR
2:38
They nodded their heads like, "Yeah."
2:40
You know, that high-energy kind of environment is just kind of fun.
2:44
You, you want to be part of it.
speaker_1NARRATOR
1:24
As they walked in, she had to admit the atmosphere was exciting.
1:28
And we had to walk through a gauntlet, I will say, of cheerleaders who were jumping up and down and revving up the energy in the room.
1:38
And I remember saying to one woman, I said, man, you, you girls really had your coffee this morning.
1:44
And she said to me, oh, we don't drink coffee.
1:46
Like, that's poison.
1:47
And I was like, oh, okay, well, I do.
1:49
And I love it.
speaker_1NARRATOR
2:38
They nodded their heads like, yeah.
speaker_1NARRATOR
1:24
As they walked in, she had to admit the atmosphere was exciting.
1:28
And we had to walk through a gauntlet, I will say, of cheerleaders who were jumping up and down and revving up the energy in the room.
1:38
And I remember saying to one woman, I said, man, you girls really had your coffee this morning.
1:44
And she said to me, oh, we don't drink coffee.
1:46
Like, that's poison.
1:47
And I was like, oh, OK, well, I do.
1:49
And I love it.
speaker_1NARRATOR
2:38
They nodded their heads like, yeah.
speaker_1NARRATOR
1:24
As they walked in, she had to admit, the atmosphere was exciting.
1:28
And we had to walk through a gauntlet, I will say, of cheerleaders who were jumping up and down and revving up the energy in the room.
1:38
And I remember saying to one woman, I said, "Man, you, you girls really had your coffee this morning." And she said to me, "Oh, we don't drink coffee.
1:46
Like, that's poison." And I was like, "Oh, okay.
1:49
Well, I do, and I love it." [laughs]
speaker_1NARRATOR
2:38
They nodded their heads like, "Yeah."
2:40
You know, that high-energy kind of environment is just kind of fun.
2:44
You, you want to be part of it.

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