That's wisdom.

That's understanding that in order to achieve your goal, you have to master so many other things that will lead to the achievement of that goal.

So rather than focusing on the goal, focus on building the person that you need to become to achieve that goal.

And that's why when now when I meet a person who's hy- hyper successful, I'm not thinking, "How can they become my client?" That's the furthest thing from my mind.

I'm thinking, "What can I learn from this person to, to improve myself, to become the person who can then achieve the goal that I want to achieve?" So it's a different, it's a shift in mindset that I believe does come with age.

The advantage that the youth have now is that when I was in my 20s and, and 30s and, and the early part of my 40s, there was no social media, and so there was no communication, mass global communication at scale that h- that educated me on this.

Whereas now you can watch an endless amount of creators such as you, such as me- Dan Martell, Gary Vaynerchuk, the list goes on and on and on, you know? Um, Cody Sanchez is great, but you know what I mean? And now we're-- Now the youth have the ability to tap into that wisdom if they're paying attention Yeah, but I think you still have to live it.

Like their whole, their whole brand is them as a couple.

Yeah.

If, if a woman came to me and said that, "He's being kind of, like, erroneous on the prenup where it puts me at a disadvantage if I sign it, considering, like, certain outcomes," and if I was talking to that guy, I would tell him, "You shouldn't get married." And the reason I would tell him not to get married, 'cause I would say to him, "If you think you're gonna marry someone and be even married for, like, a day and then get divorced and walk away the same as you are now, and that person isn't gonna receive anything, you shouldn't get married because I don't think you understand what marriage actually is." Doesn't work this way.

You can't- a man can't...

If, if a man is the one with more money going into a marriage, if he thinks that he's gonna leave that marriage at any point completely, like, untouched financially, he shouldn't get married 'cause he doesn't understand marriage, and he certainly doesn't understand life.

Mm-hmm.

And I think that's probably where I, what I should have done, is I should have s- And I remember when you came to me and you said that you wanted to go to school, and you asked me for my suggestion, uh, my suggestion, and I suggested that you go to business school for the purpose of I didn't go to business school, so I don't have a formal business education.

I've been creating and running businesses based on trial and error, and I thought that I knew that you and I would continue to have businesses of some kind and that you could help contribute if you had formal education around it.

Um, you said that that wasn't interesting for you, and you wanted to get, um, an education in holistic nutrition, which I agreed to right away.