And so how did you shift gears in this new relationship? Were you nervous to have that financial conversation? Yeah.

You know, our situation was unique in the sense of we had been together for quite a while.

We were at an age where we were like, okay, we know we want to have a kid together.

So we got pregnant, got married, and bought a house all in the same year.

And it was like the trifecta of, you know, stressors all at once.

And I always said after my first marriage that I was going to have a prenup and I was really like, you know, steadfast on that.

Because the child came into play, what we ended up doing was a living trust thing.

So what are these trips? Yeah.

Mm-hmm.

The first is the thought onion, which is my kind of way that I came up with on my trip of how to look deeper at the thoughts and reactions that I was having so that I could begin to, A, get answers as to what the hell was going on, and B, be able to shift and heal those things.

So you look at it like an onion.

[laughs] I always said I was gonna change the name and then just continued writing on this trip and never actually did and it stuck, so here we are.

You look at it like an onion, and the first layer is called the superficial thought, and it's the knee-jerk reaction you have when something happens, like, before you can even think about why you're having this reaction.

And it often comes from a superficial place that is emotional charged.

And when you take a step back and you can look at what's underneath that, we call that the authentic thought, and that's usually where the pain point in where this superficial reaction came from.

Um, I want to end, if you are open to it, I would love to know what comeback season do you feel like you're currently in? Like, what comeback are you working on, and then what either season or step or phase are you currently in? I know we touched a little bit about it, on it, but if you could, like, define it a little bit more, I would love to hear.