Is there something we can do as parents to build better stories, better identities for our kids?

Yeah, and I think it's important for parents to realize that, you know, it's not necessarily the scripts that they're telling their children.

It can come from all sorts of different influences.

It can be a teacher.

It can be something that got overblown by a perception as a child because, well, For example, if you've had a bad morning as a child and then your art teacher praises someone else's art and not your own, that could then make you as a child think, I'm not very good at art.

That's a story you've created for yourself, which you then may perpetuate.

So it doesn't necessarily have to be a voice that comes from externally.

What are some myths about resilience that you've learned from actually being up close with people in ICU, especially during the lockdowns, during COVID? What does resilience mean to you? What have you discovered?