What was it about the fire that made it an issue? That you were putting in more and felt you needed to have the control?

Well, that's a good question.

What was it about the fire? So...

I think the catalyst was that I realized that I was the only active family member.

Even my father was no longer really able to even give me advice at that point or be a sounding board.

In fact, the very last conversation my father and I had I tried to engage him.

He was suffering terribly with shingles.

Did you give it to one son? Did you give it to all your sons? How did that