Did you, did you stop working when that happened? Did you make big changes right away with your work?

Well, it's interesting that I was I didn't love my corporate job and I had in my mind I had a plan that I was going to in February 2016.

I would be putting in my my letter of resignation and also kind of hopefully, you know, picking up and putting, you know, having something else lined up.

And then my son died in February of 2016.

So I hung around in that job for a minute just because I wasn't in a position to make any major changes.

And then about a year later, it was just all a lot.

It was too much.

Tell me everything, please.

Yeah.

I had to sit across from myself, this, this latest version and say, "What do you want now? What are your priorities? What, what isn't working that is just now a part of your daily life and routine?" And then once I kind of answered those questions and I had an idea of, like, the areas where things needed to shift, then I had to have conversations with other people, and I had to renegotiate the terms.

So my husband and I went through a really challenging time because he married a corporate good girl.

That's who he married.

I was, like, rising inside of my agency, and that felt comfortable to him.

I got a paycheck every two weeks.

I had a 401[k].

Yep.