So tell us, walk us through like your pseudo diagnosis and what learning looked like for you when you were a child and then we'll weave in your parenting.

Okay, so I remember getting in trouble a lot in kindergarten.

And I, you know, I went to kindergarten with my first cousin and she's my best friend and we just loved being together.

But I still remember sitting at the table and just not being able to write all the things that they needed me to write or I needed another person just one-on-one helping me.

I wasn't able to do it by myself.

And that, you know, obviously continued into kindergarten.

first and second grade and and I do remember being put on ADHD medication probably around first grade and getting evaluated and whatever that entailed I don't remember like the specifics of it exactly so yeah I was diagnosed with ADHD at least that's you know the diagnosis that was shared with me and I know I was diagnosed with some other learning disorder maybe they called it visual processing um And I needed a lot of help.

yes.