if you feel comfortable, what got you into this specific niche?

Yeah, absolutely.

There's a personal side, which I think for most people who are a coach or a therapist, there's often their own personal story tied to this, as well as the professional side to it.

So personally, I was in a relationship for five and a half years to, again, the good guy.

He was great.

He was kind.

And there wasn't anything that was tangibly wrong with the relationship.

Can you give us maybe some insight into what you noticed with each partner and what was different?

Like that's a very obvious sign that it's like, okay, this isn't working.

Right.

I mean, yes and no to that because usually the women I work with, you know, they've been in relationships for years and sometimes they've been doubting it from the very beginning.

Sometimes it's something more recent that comes up for them.

And so with being in a relationship for a long time, like there are things that do align.

Like there's going to be values that... that are compatible and that do, you know, match your checklist and hit what you're looking for.

And so it's really looking at this kind of, I like to see it more of like on this spectrum of where am I compromising and where, what are, that's why I call them non-negotiable values or like, what are the things that are so important to me that I'm I am realizing I really need in my life and in my relationship.

physical abuse or we're not talking about that but just right you're not on the same page during a period in life right you figure it out what's your stance on