Yeah.H- what's the best way that a woman can prepare for that first meeting, um, to make it as efficient as possible and to get the best advice?

So I would say, uh, one of the best things to do, so if it's a parenting matter, um, bring with you copies of any parenting plans or court orders that you've already got.

That's really helpful, um, in terms of us working out this is the arrangement that you've already got in place, and then we would always have questions for you around why have you come to see us.

Usually people don't come to see a lawyer 'cause things are going particularly well.

There's something that's gone a bit awry, so we wanna say, "Okay, why now? Why, what do you want some, why do you need some advice now?" Um, but definitely for parenting, I would turn your minds to, uh, what you've, is already in place and where you would like it to be.

Think about things like, um, special occasions.

Think about things like where the kids go to school.

Um, but in that space, you know, how do you help, or what do you suggest women do in that space where they're like, "They shouldn't be getting this amount, it's more than they deserve."