[laughs]

And, uh, yeah, I love what you said in there because it's so true, and I found that, like, you know, in my own journey, because I was a people pleaser, I was always trying to, like, get other people to love me.

I, I just felt like if, if someone didn't like me, I- it would really bring up all those feelings of there's something wrong with me.

They were already there, but it would just make it even more, like, even stronger.

So that's why for me, I would do anything to just not be the person that people didn't like.

Um, and then what I found over the years is that, again, you might have people in your life, but you're not gonna have, like, a, a real connection with people because they don't really know who you are, and you also don't know who you are, and you're connecting from that place of you being who they want you to be, not who you really are.

And as you go through this process of kind of getting to know yourself, and then obviously there's some challenges as you do that, because you're gonna have to start putting boundaries, you're gonna have to start saying no, you're gonna have to start looking at certain relationships in your life to see if they're really aligned or not.

... right now, how can people follow you or get in touch with you if they'd like to do so?