They want to hear you talk.

Okay, well, I'll tell you my experience, which is the truth.

Let's see.

So I just filmed this show called Calabasas Confidential.

We were number four in Canada.

We did our big one out there.

Anyways, wasn't.

had mentioned this she said the same thing again, which was you know, you don't have to come to

[laughs]

... away from all of that kind of stuff.

So I def- it definitely took some convincing.

Um, and then, you know, I got relocated due to the fires.

So I, I kind of saw that as an opportunity to just get back home.

Yeah

... was vulnerable and just kind of sharing those moments.

Um, there was just so much that we were dealing with on the show, you know, I don't feel like I really gave myself the time to really just take it all in and express me so much.

Hey, Hey, I'll take

it.

Hey, way to go.

You crushed.

Um, so yeah, I would say like being able to like, no. that are like them right and so if you're talking to somebody who is gonna be straight up and straightforward which a lot of times like you're gonna run to people that are really quick especially like what's a lot of times how it is and so it's talked about a ton as like that no sauce is the sauce but being able to just be very direct or with people that are very direct and or being able to communicate in a way that makes sense for the person that you're talking to.

Their motives are what really matter.

If you can figure out and mirror them, you can figure out what motivates them.

What are you doing that no one else is?

Aren't we all heartbroken? I mean, I think me and Dylan are great friends, and I wish him nothing but the best.

Thanks.

Talk to me about that journey, a little bit how you overcame it, and I really would love to hear a little bit about how you keep Dylan, the person, wrapped up in that and didn't lose sight in that now.

Yeah.

Like all things, it's one day at a time.

And it's really just maintaining that focus and that goal setting.

It's just tomorrow, tomorrow.

As far as maintaining who I am as a person versus who I am to other people or who other people want me to be, I think it's a level of security that you have a moment with and that conversation you have with yourself.