
Dylan Selterman
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Oct 13, 2026
Why Do People Cheat on Someone They Love? - Prof. Dylan Selterman - #64
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27:04speaker_0HOST
Before we look at some of the results there, can you maybe explain what you did with that study, what it looked like?

Dylan SeltermanGUEST
some important limitations from the previous research that we talked about because those studies were cross-sectional, meaning we only surveyed people one time.

Dylan SeltermanGUEST
And like I said, they were predominantly young adults in dating relationships.

Dylan SeltermanGUEST
And we had an opportunity to collaborate with the folks who run the Ashley Madison website, which for those of you who are not familiar, it's basically a kind of dating app for people who are married and want to have affairs.

Dylan SeltermanGUEST
So it's kind of like, you know, Tinder or OkCupid, except, you know, people are committed and they don't want their partners to.
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46:52speaker_0HOST
But is monogamy something that is biologically imprinted in humanity? Or is this more like a cultural thing that we have established after the fact?