We'll make sure to link to it.

OK, it's about these three older sisters, loosely based on my family, who come together when their dad dies, the last surviving parent dies.

And so they come and figure out how to navigate adult sibling relationships.

So the relationship thing is pretty, you know, it's pretty fun at that age.

It's funny.

It's emotional.

They fall back into their childhood roles, you know, the oldest, the middle, the youngest and all of that stuff.

really clearly it's, it's really, really broken and it's not made for the kids which is what it was there to be made for it's made for parents and highly litigating parents so we'll have a whole other conversation about that you know one of the things that survivors I often hear about it are often here and I'm sure you do too besides that when am I going to be healed is I don't know who I am anymore So how do you begin to rebuild that identity after you've gone down to zero and seen that, you know, that little powerful you, how do you start to rebuild that identity?