Is there anything on their profile that you've noticed or common things that they would put on that we could recognize that they're actually not single?

would look him up i mean like that's what i i look up people for a living so i would look them up i would find their social media profiles and and then the other thing too like we actually deal with a lot of married people that are bromance scammed and they're like they're actually cheating on their spouses but one thing we see a lot is that you know they're selective on when they'll chat with you or talk to you you know and they're not available you know especially as the conversation like moves on they're not available all the time they're only available certain times or there's excuses that pop up But you can also do just a background check and look up somebody's name, look up their social media profiles.

We have people that come to us all the time that ask us to look into people to make sure they're not married or to make sure that they don't have a criminal history, which you should probably do anyway if you're not using a matchmaker and you want to do things safely.

It's just too easy.

It's too easy to get on these apps.

And especially if you're on Bumble or whatever, you can match with anybody and it doesn't mean they're a bad person or amazing person, you just should be safe, especially as a female with how you do things.

You know, has better recommendations on how to do things safely, but looking somebody up is a very easy, basic thing to do, especially if you're going to go on a date and you should have an understanding of who, like what you're walking into.

But, you know, in this world, how would somebody really know the difference between, oh, I'm overreacting and I ruled out a guy that was an okay guy versus, whoa, I dodged a bullet.