And then I suppose the intimacy that women love is that sit down and talk to me.

Look, to be honest, what I find is working with people and doing that work with myself and with Alison, a lot of this stuff we know.

Yeah, but understanding it is a whole different scenario.

Women love the intimacy, as you say.

Can you come home? Can you have a conversation? Can you sit on the sofa? Can you have a chat about the day? They want to be listened to.

They want to be heard.

Where men come in and all they hear is the damsel in distress.

Wow.

And did you, did that scenario break the relationship with Kenny or what sort of repair did you have to do with the team and with the manager after that?

I went into the shower after the game and I was in the shower for, I'd say a good 45 minutes an hour.

Say I used up the whole hot water and the whole football club.

I was in there that long and every, every drop of water felt like a blade.

And I've, I've come out afterwards and I thought, right, geez, I better not tell Ali here because she's going to absolutely ham.

We're going to have to move again.

Standard procedure would be go on the transfer list or the manager.

What does that look like?