[laughs]

[laughs] While I was deconstructing, which I thought was a pretty funny challenge from the universe.

Write this book that has the word Christian in the title, and, um, you know, deconstruct at the same time.

Have fun.

So that was interesting.

It's called The Enneagram For Christian Couples.

And, um, so I'm an author, I am a personal coach.

if we remember that it's worth it.

Well, just say more.

Yeah.

So I love that you're talking about the work, and I think burden comes to mind when you're thinking of doing work.

And so I think sometimes that keeps us away from it, 'cause it's like, what...

I mean, I gotta work on something else? Like, life is so much work already, and now you're wanting me to do inner work and figure myself out? And it does feel kind of like a burden.

But the truth is what's really burdening us is the constraints that our type gives us, that we're unconsciously operating from.

And so the work of unburdening ourselves from our type is actually what's giving us freedom.

I think the work gets really stuck for ones in this way because you actually have to be like, "Wait, was my reaction there maybe not right?"