Um, would you say, what did someone say? Top three conversations that you think someone should have knowing what you know now before marriage.

Um, maybe like, oh, definitely around kids views.

Um, not just the standard conversation of like, how many kids do you want? Um, private school, like things like that.

More so around like, let's say you're in the trenches, just had a kid, you're tired, your husband's up and going to work every single day, and at the end of the day you just like, "I just wish he would come home and, um, like spend some time with us and the kid." Um, or your child, not the kid, sorry.

Um, but I think like that's something important to be like, okay, in the depth of it when I still have to go to work to provide for us because you're now at home looking after our baby.

Um, what does it look like if, you know, if you're out of the house for 12 hours a day at work, coming home? Like, I think they are the conversations people often overlook.

Like we can all sit there and go, "Oh, I want two kids, three kids." At the end of the day, you don't really get a choice.

How do you guys go about setting boundaries in terms of your independence in your relationships? Any advice?"