So I would want to bring in evidence that shows that I'm aware of what they're doing at the moment to let them know of my presence, my love, and the fact I'm still around.

That's what I start with.

I bring the evidence in afterwards.

So the evidence is also based upon I remember when.

So you've got the memories.

You see, so if, for instance, the emotion is one of love, I really love you, how do I love you? It's that just taking something just a little bit further to open a door.

Well, it's not even a door, really, just to open a way of understanding, you see, as to why.

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