How old were you back in the day when you met your wife? What was life like that? What was life in that time frame when you guys met? Take us back.

Yeah, and I think that's such a good question because I think so many relationships kind of go through these phases, and ours is not exempt from that.

So when I met my wife, if I'm being honest, I wasn't looking for a wife, right? I was not checking for her, and she wasn't checking for me.

We just happened to be in the same place at the right time.

And if I'm being honest, it was like the first time I felt like I heard God's voice.

I saw this woman.

She walked out on the stage.

I always kept the secret.

You know what I'm talking about

... what women are known for.

I don't want that to be what men attach themselves to women who are so much more advanced to them.

Like, she's gonna get me there, right? But my wife did that for me.

And so when we, when we separated, and, like, [laughs] people t- say this all the time, like, "Hey, she's so weak for staying," right? Like, she didn't love herself.

She didn't respect herself.

And so I'm gonna say this, but I don't want people to think that if you stay, that you don't love yourself or, like, you shouldn't be respected.

Never did.